Major Crush

I have this huge fascination for Japanese urban landscape. The way the cables hung unruly from pole to pole against the blue sky and meshed perfectly with those smaller buildings, that certain orderliness in the midst of all the juxtaposition somehow relates to my own personality. I enjoy having a lot of little things around me, yet I cannot tolerate mess. So I spend a lot of time tidying and organising, but always making sure I do not lose my personal style.

Japanese Urban Landscape

There is a nice little place in Paris that houses my France memories. It's called Maisons-Alfort Alfortville, where my good friend, Alison's apartment is. For one precious week of my life in Paris, I got to stay in that sweet and cozy place, all because Alsion has been so lovingly generous. I can still smell the air and feel the warmth of the sun about the apartment as I write. It may be a little out of the way from the city centre but it feels totally comfortable, so you can actually stay in if you don't feel like going out.

I remember the last day I was in Paris, I'd spent most of it walking around the neighborhood in the rain. It was quiet and peaceful, with friendly little shops at every corner. And I also remember wishing I could live in a neighborhood like this for the rest of my life.

Somewhere in a book I read this quote : "Blogger: someone with nothing to say writing for someone with nothing to do." I thought that was funny, and rather true sometimes.

"Times of Your Life" by Paul Anka

Good morning, yesterday

You wake up and time has slipped away

And suddenly it's hard to find

The memories you left behind

Remember, do you remember

The laughter and the tears

The shadows of misty yesteryears

The good times and the bad you've seen

And all the others in between

Remember, do you remember

The times of your life (do you remember)

Reach back for the joy and the sorrow

Put them away in your mind

The mem'ries are time that you borrow

To spend when you get to tomorrow

Here comes the setting sun

The seasons are passing one by one

So gather moments while you may

Collect the dreams you dream today

Remember, will you remember

The times of your life

"Feeling is the language of the soul. If you want to know what's true for you about something, look to how you're feeling about it. Feelings are sometimes difficult to discover - and often even more difficult to acknowledge. Yet hidden in your deepest feelings is your highest truth.

Words are really the least effective communicator. They are most open to misinterpretation, most often misunderstood. And why is that? It is because of what words are. Words are merely utterances: noises that stand for feelings, thoughts and experience. They are symbols. Signs. Insights. They are not truth. They are not the real thing.

Words may help you understand something. Experience allows you to know. Yet there are some things you cannot experience. So you are given other tools of knowing. And they are called feelings. So too, thoughts.

Your experience and your feelings about a thing represent what you factually and intuitively know about that thing. Words can only seek to symbolize what you know, and can often confuse what you know.

Listen to your feelings. Listen to your highest thoughts. Listen to your experience. Whenever any one of these differ from what you've been told by your teachers, or read in your books, forget the words. Words are the least reliable purveyor of truth."

What Is Hope?

When my nephew Elliot was 5, I asked him what he thought hope was, he answered : "Like when you don't have something?" Perhaps Elliot was just thinking, every time he was hoping, he wanted something he didn't have.

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24, originally uploaded by Greg&Lindsey.

Paris, Shakespeare&Co

Paris, Shakespeare&Co, originally uploaded by overthemoon.

A unique book shopping experience. Shakespeare and Company, located in Paris' Left Bank, is both a bookstore and a reading library specializing in English-language literature. The original bookstore was located at 12 rue de l'Odéon and was often visited by artists of such as Ernest Hemmingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Gertrude Stein, Man Ray and James Joyce. The current owner, George Whitman, has been inviting people to live in his shop. There are now 13 beds among the books, and all he asks is that you make your bed in the morning, help out in the shop, and read a book a day. Also, if you happened to buy a book, you have to remember to get it stamped with the trademark Shakespeare & Co. stamp.

A Unforgettable Experience

We met many motivating people and were told many inspirational stories when we were making So Simple II. So we felt we owed it to the audience to bring across that great experience we were privileged to have. Hence a sincerely wonderful show which later earned itself a nomination for Asia Television Award 2008 and Peifen, for her Best Host in 2009.

Memories of London are often very close to my heart and I hope to revisit them someday. I hear the unique Pollock's Toy Museum (picture) isn't at the same corner where I used to stay each time I visited anymore. In fact, it's totally removed due to lack of funding. I felt a little sad knowing. I wonder, perhaps somewhere in the life before this, I had also been there and loved it. 1997 photo by mian

A colleague of mine who recently toured Europe bought me these cute little things from a museum in Prague. They are actually variations of one famous cartoon character called The Mole (or Krteček), created in the 50's by Czech animator, Zdeněk Miler. I'm grateful to my colleague who has introduced me to this great illustrator.

The lesser something shouts for attention, the more I am inclined to notice and grow fond of it. I think it's the same with people. I have very low tolerance for people who try very hard. I prefer taking the time to uncover what's truly interesting about something, somebody.

"Junkie's" New Find

Even though I pride myself for being a "junkie", I rarely pick up stuff from a junk pile. I would normally pay for them, like buy them off a flea market stall when I travel. But this crate was an exception; I actually picked it up from a building next to my office. See how friendly it is sitting beside everything else in the room? photos by mian

Still A "Junkie"

Guess I'll never ever stop being a "junkie". all photos by mian

Another New Toy

Something red and cheerful to brighten up the new year! This heavy wooden London bus reminds me of a sprightly old man, longstanding and ever so charming. A gift from a dear friend.